What he won't tell you!!!
Your guy may never actually voice this out, but this is what he'd really like to say.
1. We like it when our friends like you... NOT so much when they love you!
There's nothing cooler to a guy, than a girl who can hold her own while his friends joke about girls, burp this afternoon's lunch and rattle on about football. But when his guy friends starting wishing you were theirs, he suddenly wishes you never knew anything about football. So be friendly with his friends but remind him that he's the ONE!
2. We want to be your best friend too!
You don't have to ramble on like you do with your girls, but keep him in the loop. While they may not want to replace any of your girl friends, they don't want to be the second person you tell either! Unfortunately, best guy friends fall even lower on the 'like' list.
3. We 'do get' tired of the chase...
Of course it's ok to make them work for it a li'l, especially at the beginning of the relationship; but even Usain Bolt runs out of steam at some point. The tug of war should end when he's poured his heart out.
4. We worry about getting dumped too.
This is the truth and nothing but the truth! Guys don't set the relationship on a timer. In fact, they wonder if you'll walk away first. So maybe if you stop thinking he's going to leave you, he might actually stop worrying about you leaving him.
5. We want you to speak your mind.
They don't like it when we expect them to read our minds. Telepathy is supposed to be a bonus, not a necessity. Plus, when guys assume and get it wrong, they just get into more trouble.
(source: seventeen magazine: August 2010)
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